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Do you know you can lose custody of your child?

On Behalf of | Jun 24, 2025 | Child Custody

Child custody is often a highly emotional and sensitive issue. Many parents assume they will always have access to their children unless they commit a serious crime, but that is not always the case. Custody can be limited or taken away when a parent’s behavior or choices place the child’s safety, health or emotional well-being at risk.

Courts make child custody decisions aim to based on the best interests of the child at issue. This means judges closely examine how each parent supports the child’s growth, safety and stability. If a parent’s actions interfere with these priorities, they may face restricted or lost custody rights.

Actions that could lead to the loss of custody rights

Below are some behaviors that may result in the loss of custody rights:

  • Physical or emotional abuse: Harming a child physically or emotionally can immediately lead to custody loss. This includes hitting, verbal attacks, manipulation or ongoing emotional neglect that affects the child’s mental health.
  • Neglecting the child’s needs: Failing to provide basic necessities such as food, clean clothing, medical care or a safe home environment may be viewed as neglect. Judges may see this as a failure to protect the child’s well-being.
  • Substance misuse: Using drugs or alcohol in ways that impair judgment or endanger the child can result in restricted custody. Repeated incidents, criminal charges or failure to complete treatment often support changes in custody.
  • Violating court orders: Ignoring custody schedules, interfering with the other parent’s time or disobeying orders can be seen as an unwillingness to co-parent. Courts may limit the violating parent’s custody in response.
  • Interfering with the child’s relationship with the other parent: Badmouthing the other parent or pressuring the child to reject them can harm the child emotionally. Courts often view this as a serious form of manipulation that may justify modifying custody.

Losing custody does not always mean losing contact. However, it can lead to supervised visits or fewer rights. Seeking legal guidance may be necessary if you believe your actions are being questioned or if you are concerned about protecting your child custody rights.