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Gray divorce has challenges that aren’t present in other divorces

On Behalf of | Jun 9, 2025 | Divorce

People usually assume that people who are married in their 50s or later will remain married for the remainder of their days. That’s not always how it happens. Divorces in this later stage of life have become so common that they’re not known as gray divorces. 

When people go through a gray divorce, they may not have minor children, but that doesn’t mean that it’s an easy situation to go through. Instead, people in this position have various other things to consider if they want to end their marriage. 

Financial implications

Gray divorce often has significant financial impacts on both parties. One reason for this is that the joint accounts they’ve built to support a home together will now have to support two different homes. This may lead some people in this situation to return to the workforce, even if they’ve already retired.

One of the major challenges of gray divorce is the property division aspect. All assets and debts will have to be handled. This includes the marital home and retirement accounts, which can be difficult. 

Lifestyle changes

Gray divorce can also impact each party’s lifestyle. In some cases, long-established friend groups may feel as though they have to choose sides. This could be a good time for the divorcees to explore new hobbies and meet new people. All of these changes can seem sudden, so taking things slowly may be a good idea.

It’s critical for anyone who’s going through a gray divorce to ensure their rights are being protected throughout the process. Because of the complexities of these cases, they may need to have someone on their side who can assist them throughout the process. This may make it easier to make logical decisions instead of emotional ones.